It is a known fact that life comes in stages/phases but the downside to this fact comes âthe waitâ.
The wait you have to go through to get to certain stages in your life.
Some of us arenât really cut out for patience and even those who tend to be patient enough feel tired and weary sometimes, which is completely normal.
The pressure of Social Media is more than we see or know. What worries me the most about spending so much time on these platforms are the comparisons we begin to make.
What you donât see is what goes on behind the scenes. You donât see the bloggerâs frustrations and their lows. They work very hard to get where they are and with that also comes sacrifices. The one who travels. You donât see how tired they are, going from train to train, taking the next flight, getting sick with food poisoning due to the change in diets and constantly moving.
Now, it doesnât help when youâre seeing your peers or those that are less qualified than you are, getting what you want. At this stage youâre fighting jealousy, trying to stay happy for them while you get mad at yourself even more. You try to comfort yourself through different means and act tough, bringing out the strongest part of you.
Until one day, when you come crashing, you canât help but cry and let it all out.
Youâre tired, youâre frustrated, you feel helpless, your strength is gone, youâre working hard but the result you want isnât coming, and things arenât going the way youâve fashioned out.
Darling,
Stop comparing yourself. Stop thinking your life isnât great based on someone elseâs. You need to evaluate what makes you happy in life and decide what you want, not where you think you should be from what you see elsewhere.
Let it out, donât hold yourself back, cry if you need to.
Comfort yourself in whatever will make you feel better and remind yourself that youâll get to where you need to be soon.
Donât beat yourself up so bad.
Your journey might be longer, you might feel itâs slower but trust me when I say in the end itâll be worth the wait.
It would definitely get better but for now, stay strong â€
I hope you realize how amazing you are
I hope you learn to let go of unnecessary baggage of hurt, pain, guilt and resentment
I hope you do more of the things that make you happy
I hope you experience ease and softness in all areas
I hope you meet people that love you and have your best interests at heart
I wish you thoughtful, peaceful relationships and friendships
I hope you finally realize how beautiful you are and come to terms with the fact that youâre worth it
LOVE FROM ME TO YOUâ€đ«
Thanks for this... You see this social media thing ehn...the pressure is getting worser and they said Adulthood na scam to me I don't really think it is scam o but a reality that you just have to face and finding your purpose in life.
Finding purpose in every thing ,actually gives inner peace.
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